,Transnational marriage,Made By: 付建业 庞明达 徐路明,With the development of the world, everything is changing, including peoples mind, one respect is transnational marriage.,The transnational marriage could easily be used to describe a marriage between two people of different races, like between a Chinese and an American. In the 19th century, transnational marriage was illegal in most states in the US, in 1967, the landmark Supreme Court case, Loving V. Virginia, put an end to legal discrimination in transnational marriage. Today this phenomenon has became more and more popular, our presentation is going to talk about this phenomenon, mostly about the marriage between two people of difference races, especially about a Chinese and a foreigner.,Marriage is a romantic and pure, as famous people, stars also have their marriage, some of them are transnational marriage, and now let me introduce them.,December23，1995，Michael Joseph Smith watched a Chinese sing show, when he knew Wei Wei, quickly, they fell in love. In 1994, they got married in The Kingdom of Sweden, and they had three sons in five years. It looks hopeful, but the marriage ended in 2004, because of Michael Joseph Smiths Character and the different culture.,March 27, 1961, Bruce lee came to America, and learned in Washington University, during the university, they were acquainted, and fell in love. Finally, they dropped out of the university, and got married in august 12, 1963. Later, they worked together, and had two children, a son and a daughter. Their life are full of sunshine, unfortunately, Bruce Lee leave the world in 1973, Even it, their marriage still is a successful transnational marriage.,As the famous marriage, more and more in the world, such as Liu Ye(刘烨) and his French girlfriend, Deng We Di(邓文迪) and Rupert Murdoch, Jiang Wen(姜文) and his French wife, and so on. But in the end, most transnational marriage ended up with a failure, a few couple has a successful life.,The different attitudes towards transnational marriage,In opponent opinion, transnational marriages can cause many problems within the family. First the couple has a different family background, culture, and tradition, eating habits, especially the religion, many disagreements can occur. Second, the language is important for communicate, but in the transnational marriage, the couple use the different language, the barrier for communication has brought a lot of trouble,Third, about the children, they grow in a family including two and more culture, it can be challenging in accepting both cultures at the same time. How to teach the child right thinking is the general problem for the transnational family. Finally and foremost, most people call transnational marriage “worship and have blind faith in foreign things”, because of the traditional culture, they cannot accept transnational marriage, so in fact, most people object the transnational marriage, now that a marriage which no people understand and support, it must be failed.,On the other hand, in supporter opinion, it isnt trouble, it is chance. First as the member of the transnational family, you can experience a new lifestyle, pursue a better welfare services, say goodbye to the past, even have a mixed-race baby, it is a nice life. Second, International marriages can promote knowing about different cultures and customs, even if different language. Third, you and your children will have the chance to learn a new language. Of course, finally and foremost, purpose of marriage is for love rather than for the family, if the couples understand each other, no barrier exists between them.,In my opinion, there is no distinction between right and wrong. In fact, the understanding of transnational marriage is not like what we see as the terrible and mysterious, only a person married another person who from a different country. Since the choice is a two-way and double-pass, it also needs more humility, tolerance, play and responsibilities, if they understand each other, why object the transnational marriage? As for our attitude, I think we should give more respect and understanding.,It is said by Tagore that love is an endless mystery, for it has nothing else to explain it. True love is inclusive cross each others cultural habits and eating habits, mutual tolerance, mutual adaptation. Love is the greatest refreshment in life, loving a person is difficult, but giving up the person you loved is more difficult than it, so if you sincerely love a person, please accompany her forever.,