如何用英语得当处理职场特殊事件 陈豪在北京的ABC美国公司工作他在休息室里遇到了美国同事Amy (Officeambience) CH：HiAmy,howareyou? A：Imfine,thankyou.Andyou? CH：还好 A：Sowhythepuzzledlookonyourface? C：今天早上接到我的同事Sue的电子邮件说想给另外一个同事Lyn开40岁的birthdayparty生日派对 A：Oh,hownice.Whatarethedetailsoftheparty? C：Sue要组织大家星期五在楼下的意大利餐馆吃饭而且还得带个礼物去 A：Howdoyoufeelaboutthat? C：我觉得有点尴尬我跟Lyn并不熟不知道该给她买点什么另外我也不知道花多少钱合适 A：Iagreethattheseoccasionscanbeunfortable,especiallywhenyoudontknowthepersonwelloryouareaskedtobuyagift. C：那我是不是应该给Sue发个email回绝算了呢 A：Thisisnotthetimetosendanemail.Yourwordsmightbemisunderstood.Youneedtodiscussthisandemaildoesnotlenditselftodiscussion. C：要不我就说星期五已经安排了其他事儿 A：Thatsnotagoodidea,especiallyifeveryoneelseinyourdepartmentisparticipating.TalktoSue. C：那好吧 * 第二天陈豪在办公室走廊上遇到了Amy. A：Hi,ChenHao.Howdiditgo?DidyoutalktoSue? C：我昨天下午去找Sue跟她说了我的顾虑 A：Imcurioustoknowwhathappened. C：谈得还不错她说另外还有几个人找过她提出了各种问题 A：Likewhat? C：有的人说跟Lyn不熟,买礼物好像不太合适但是大家并不介意凑份子一起给Lyn买个像样的礼物 A：Sometimeswiththeseevents,peoplearentsurehowmuchtospend,likeyou,andtheydontwanttoeofflookingstingyorcheap.Occasionallysomeonejustdoesnthaveanyextramoneytospendonanunanticipatedexpense. C：其实我手头也有点紧 A：Sodidyouworkthingsout? C：Sue决定大家一起凑钱给Lyn买礼物每人只要交几块钱就行了她还说如果有人不愿意也没有关系 A：Thatsoundslikeyouallcameupwiththeperfectsolution.Itisalwaysnicetorecognizespecialoccasionsintheoffice,likebirthdays,weddingsandthearrivalofbabies. C：不过我觉得办公室里遇到这种事情应该有一个大家都觉得合适的做法 A：Iagree.Theseoccasionsareopportunitiestobuildrelationshipswithourcoworkers,gettoknoweachotheroutsidetheofficeandhavesomefuntogether.Bifeveryoneisnotinagreement,youllcreateillwillinsteadofgoodwill.