1.A. I have been romantic and imaginative.B. I have been pragmatic and down to earth.2.A. I have tended to take on confrontations.B. I have tended to avoid confrontations.3.A. I have typically been diplomatic, charming, and ambitious.B. I have typically been direct, formal and idealistic.4.A. I have tended to be focused and intense.B. I have tended to be spontaneous and fun-loving.5.A. I have been a hospitable person and have enjoyed welcoming new friends into my life.B. I have been a private person and have not mixed much with others.6.A. Its been difficult for me to relax and stop worrying about potential problems.B. Its been difficult for me to get myself worked up about potential problems.7.A. Ive been more of a street-smart survivor.B. Ive been more of a high minded idealist.8.A. I have needed to show affection to people.B. I have preferred to maintain some distance with people.9.A. When presented with a new experience, Ive usually asked myself if it would be useful to me.B. When presented with a new experience, Ive usually asked myself if it would be enjoyable.10.A. I have tended to focus too much on myself.B. I have tended to focus too much on others.11.A. Others have depended on my insight and knowledge.B. Others have depended on my strength and decisiveness.12.A. I have come across as being too unsure of myself.B. I have come across as being too sure of myself.13.A. I have been more relationship-oriented than goal-oriented.B. I have been more goal-oriented than relationship-oriented.14.A. I have not been able to speak up for myself very well.B. I have been outspoken - I have said what others wished they had the nerve to say.15.A. Its been difficult for me to stop considering alternatives and do something definite.B. Its been difficult for me to take it easy and be more flexible.16.A. I have tended to be careful and hesitant.B. I have tended to be bold and domineering.17.A. My reluctance to get involved has gotten me in trouble with people.B. My eagerness to have people depend on me has gotten me into trouble with them.18.A. Usually, I have been able to put my feelings aside to get the job done.B. Usually, I have needed to work through my feelings before I could act.19.A. Generally, Ive been methodical and cautious.B. Generally, Ive been adventurous and taken risks.20.A. I have tended to be a supportive, giving person who seeks intimacy with others.B. I have tended to be a serious, reserved person who likes discussing issues.21.A. Ive often felt the need to be a pillar of strength.B. I have often felt the need to perform perfectly.22.A. Ive typically been interested in asking tough questions and maintaining my independence.B. Ive typically been interested in maintaining my stability and peace of mind.23.A. Ive been a bit cynical and skeptical.B. Ive been a bit mushy and sentimental.24.A. Ive often worried that Im missing out on something better.B. Ive often worried that if I let down my guard, someone will take advantage of me.25.A. My habit of being stand-offish has annoyed people.B. My habit of telling people what to do has annoyed people.26.A. I have tended to get anxious if there was too much excitement and stimulation.B. I have tended to get anxious if there wasnt enough excitement and stimulation.27.A. I have depended on my friends & they have known that they can depend on me.B. I have not depended on people; I have done things on my own.28.A. I have tended to be detached and preoccupied.B. I have tended to be moody and self-absorbed.29.A. I have liked to challenge people and shake them up.B. I have liked to comfort people and calm them down.30.A. I have generally been an outgoing, sociable person.B. I have generally been an earnest, self-disciplined person.31.A. Ive wanted to fit in with others - I get uncomfortable when I stand out too much.B. Ive wanted to standout from others - I get uncomfortable when I dont distinguish myself.32.A. Pursuing my personal interests has been more important to me than having stability and security.B. Having stability and security has been more important to me than pursuing my personal interests.33.A. When Ive had conflicts with others, Ive tended to withdraw.B. When Ive had conflicts with others, Ive rarely backed down.34.A. I have given in too easily and let others push me around.B. Ive been too uncompromising and demanding with others.35.A. Ive been appreciated for my unsinkable spirit and resourcefulness.B. Ive been appreciated for my deep caring and personal warmth.36.A. I have wanted to make a favorable impression on others.B. I have cared little about making a favorable impression on others.37.A. Ive depended on my perseverance and common sense.B. Ive depended on my imagination and moments of inspiration.38.A. Basically, I have been easy-going and agreeable.B.