HumanRelationsandInterpersonalSkills Unit1 Warm up 01 ListeningandSpeaking 02 ViewingandSpeaking 03 CONTENTS Project 04 1 Warm up Warm up 1Workingroupstomakealistofvariouskindsofinterpersonalrelationshipsinourlives Thenchooseawordinthefollowingboxtodescribetherelationships Youmayuseyourownwordifit snotincluded journeygardenseednutrientfruittreefilmshowdancesongdreampartygameweatherwindsunshinestarfirespicebookdictionarysmartphonechemicalpaintpianokey Warm up ReferenceanswersMyrelationshipwithmyboyfriendislikeajourney Ithastwistsandturns upsanddowns Sometimestheroadissmooth sometimesitisrough andsometimesthereareevenaccidentsontheroad ButwehavemadeithereallthewayandIbelieveithasbeenaworthyjourney Myrelationshipwithmyfriendsislikeabook Ittakesalongtimetowrite butonlyaminutetotearup Warm up 2Workinpairsonthefollowingactivities StudentAturnstoPage123 StudentBturnstoPage124 StudentAdescribesPictureAtoStudentB andthelatterdrawsthepicturewithoutaskinganyquestions StudentAdoesnotcorrectStudentBevenifhe shemakesmistakes StudentBdescribesPictureBtoStudentAandStudentAdrawsthepicture Therewillbeconstantcommunicationbetweenyoutomakethedrawingmatchtheoriginalpictureasmuchaspossible Step1 Step2 Step3 Warm up 2Workinpairsonthefollowingactivities Discusswithyourpartnerabouttheprocessesofdrawing Whichwayofcommunication one wayforPictureA ortwo wayforPictureB ismoreeffective Doyouthinkthisisthesametoourinterpersonalrelationships Step4 2 ListeningandSpeaking TopicOneHowtoapologize 1Sometimes wedothingsthatrequireanapology Butoftentimesitisnoteasytoopenthemouth Nowyouaregoingtohearsomeadviceonhowtoapologizefromanetiquetteexpert Listentoatalkandnotedownthesevenstepsofapologizing ListeningandSpeaking Howtoapologize Listeningandunderstanding ReferenceanswersStep1 Prepare Step2 Approach Step3 Loweryourvoice Step4 Makeeyecontact Step5 Givetheapology Step6 Takethewrap Step7 Finishonapositive Howtoapologize Listeningandunderstanding ListeningandSpeaking 2Listentothetalkagainandfillintheblankswiththephrasesandexpressionsyouhear Thenworkinpairsandexplaintheminthecontextofthetalk Howtoapologize Listeningandunderstanding ListeningandSpeaking 1Wealldothingsthatrequireanapologyfromtimetotime But isaskillinitself 2Howcouldyou forwhatyou vedone 3Askifyoucould withtheperson andthentakethemtooneside 4Loweryourvoice Youshouldnotbe 5Ifyoulookawayatthekeymoments orrefusetomeettheirgazeatall theymaythinkyouare eatinghumblepie makeamends haveaword lookingforanargument holdingsomethingback 2Listentothetalkagainandfillintheblankswiththephrasesandexpressionsyouhear Thenworkinpairsandexplaintheminthecontextofthetalk Howtoapologize Listeningandunderstanding ListeningandSpeaking 6IsthereanythingIcandoto you 7Theotherpersonmaystillbeangrywithyou Andinorderto theymightneedtocommunicatethis Ifso youneedto 8OK socanwejustputitbehindusand yeah 9Don tlettheconversationlingerasthiscouldprovideanopportunityfor makeitupto cleartheair facethemusic moveon oldwoundstoresurface Referenceanswers1eatinghumblepie eathumblepie admitthatyouwerewrong especiallyinanembarrassingsituation 2makeamends trytomakeasituationbetterafteryouhavedonesth wrong 3haveaword haveashortconversationordiscussion usuallywithoutotherpeoplelistening 4lookingforanargument lookforanargument behaveinawaythatlookslikeyouexpecttoarguewithsb 5holdingsomethingback holdsth back keepsth secret Howtoapologize Listeningandunderstanding ListeningandSpeaking Referenceanswers6makeitupto makeituptosb dosth goodforsb youhaveupset inordertobecomefriendswiththemagain 7cleartheair discussaproblemordifficultsituationwithsb inordertomakeitbetter facethemusic acceptcriticismorpunishmentforsth youhavedonewrong 8moveon finishorstoponeactivityandstartdoingsth different 9oldwoundstoresurface oldwoundsresurface sb remembersanunpleasanteventorsituationthathappenedinthepast Howtoapologize Listeningandunderstanding ListeningandSpeaking 3Whenyoubrokeapromise orweremisunderstoodbyyourfriend anapologyisinorder Workinpairsandrole playthefollowingsituations Remembertoincludeasmanyofthesevenstepsofapologizingaspossible Howtoapologize Thinkingandspeaking ListeningandSpeaking Howtoapologize Thinkingandspeaking Usefulexpressionsformakingandacceptinganapology ListeningandSpeaking Situation1 Yousaidyouwouldbringyourlaptoptoclassforthegrouppresentation butyouforgot Theothergroupmembersdonothavebackups ReferenceanswersA Hey guys Imadeaterriblemistake Ihopeyouwillexcuseme B What swrong A Iforgottobringmylaptopforthepresentation Howtoapologize Thinkingandspeaking ListeningandSpeaking B Jesus Youpromisedthatyouwould A It sallmyfault Iwasinsuchahurrythismorning B Haveyoumadebackupsorsomething A No itneveroccurredtometodothat Well isthereanythingwecandoatpresent B Youhavenotimetoreturntoyourdormtogetit Theclassbeginsinfiveminutes Maybewehavetoapologizetotheteacherandtellherthatwehavetopostponeittillthenextclass Howtoapologize Thinkingandspeaking ListeningandSpeaking A Itseemsthatthereisnootherchoice Iwillexplainittotheteacher It sallmyfault Ir