Lesson 3 Weddings,Have you ever been to a wedding party? Who was getting married? How many people were there? What time did it start/finish? What did they wear? What did people do? Did you have a wonderful time?,in church,To have and to hold from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part.,Weddings,bride bridegroom best man,Guess and match,f) a man who is about to get married or has just got married a) a friend of the groom who helps him during the wedding ceremony d) a woman who is about to get married or has just got married,b) a party to celebrate the marriage ceremony of two people e) an important social or religious occasion c) a door or gate that you go through to enter a place,ceremony entrance wedding reception,bride,best man,bridegroom,invitation,wedding ceremony,entrance,crown,wedding reception,Read the text and try to remember what to do and what not to do.,Indonesian wedding,I can go without an invitation.,I can attend the reception after the ceremony.,I ought to put money into the box at the entrance of the reception.,What to do:,you oughtnt to go to the ceremony without asking first.,you dont have to contribute a lot of money.,you cant drink alcohol at the wedding reception.,Indonesian women dont have to cover their heads.,What not to do:,Greek wedding,before the wedding ceremony The bridegroom has to ask the brides father for his daughters hand in marriage. during the wedding ceremony The best man should help put crowns made of flowers on the heads of the couple. A long silk ribbon that links the crowns is a symbol of a long and happy life for the couple.,after the wedding ceremony The guests can attend a wedding reception. Guests can throw dishes on the floor and put money on the brides dress for good luck. The party can last through the night.,1. Indonesian families only invite people they have known for a long time. 2. The reception is before the wedding. 3. Guests usually give money as a present.,True or false,T,F,F,4. In Greek culture , the bridegroom has to ask for the brides hand in marriage. 5. The bride and bridegrooms wedding crowns are made of gold. 6. A piece of ribbon links the wedding crowns together.,T,F,T,Language points,1. even if 即使 Even if you know the secret you should keep silent. 即使你知道这个秘密, 你也应该保持沉默。,2. close family近亲 close friend亲密的朋友 Sit close against the wall. 紧靠墙坐着(指距离近) close势均力敌的;几乎相等的 a close game一场不相上下的比赛。,3. contribute (oneself) to sth. contribution n make contribution to sth/sb 捐献、捐赠；捐(钱) He contributed a lot of food and clothes to the poor.他为穷人捐了很多的食品和衣服。,(2) 献身于 He contributed himself to doing research. 他投身于研究工作。 (3) 投稿, 撰稿。 He contributed poem to a newspaper.他向报社投了一篇诗稿。,(4) 贡献 He made great contribution to the country. 他为国家做出了巨大贡献。 He made great contribution to the invention of computer. 他对计算机的发明做出了巨大贡献。,4. help put crowns made of flowers = help put crowns which are made of flowers 动词的过去分词可后置定语,也可以转换成被动语态的定语从句。 Finally they found the pot buried underground. = Finally they found the pot which was buried underground.,1. have to 2. dont have to 3. can 4. cant 5. ought 6. ought not to,not necessary necessary not allowed/not possible allowed/possible not advisable advisable,Match the words to their meanings.,Complete the passage below with the following words: have to, dont have to, cant, can, ought to, ought not to,Weddings are happy occasions but when my sister got married last year, my mum and sister did not agree on anything. First It was the dress. My mum said, “Lisa, you _ wear a white dress,” and my sister replied, “I _ wear white. I _wear pink if I like.”,have to,dont have to,can,Next it was the invitations. My mum Said, “ Lisa, you really _ invite Sally,” and my sister replied, “I _ Invite her-we have too many people already.” Then it was the flowers. My mum said, “you _ have,Complete the passage below with the following words: have to, dont have to, cant, can, ought to, ought not to,ought to,dont have to,cant,lilies. Ive heard that theyre bad luck,” and my sister replied, “of course I _ have lilies! I dont believe theyre unlucky!” and then it was the cake!“ You really _ have a fruit cake, Lisa,” said my mum, but Lisa wanted chocolate.,Complete the passage below with the following words: have to, dont have to, cant, can, ought to, ought not to,can,ought to,Finally, I told them that they really _ argue so much because it makes me hate weddings for life!,ought not to,Complete the passage below with the following words: have to, dont have to, cant, can, ought to, ought not to,Vocabulary: word building,You can often make nouns from verbs by adding the suffixes “ tion” and “-ance”. However, spellings may change somewhat. Make nouns from these verbs by competing the table.,Verbs invite receive attend enter contribute,Nouns invitation reception