What you did Leads what youll get/Sow nothing , reap nothingJobs just told three stories to us , first of all he pointed that connecting the dots.Life went by , there may be something too big or small for you to regret . With my growing up, I always feel sorry to my parents. When I was a litthle boy, I loved to come and play with them. When I grow up , I leave them and only come to them when I need something or when I am in trouble , I thought everything that I did was absolutely right even if I quarreled ,shouted to release my unsatisfied emotion . No matter what happenes , parents will always be there and give everything they could to make you happy . I have been away from them for years , now I suddenly realize how I love them and what I can do for them. Maybe its cruel to them when I was young , I am convinced that dont cry over the past, its gone, live in the present and make it beautiful now.“you cant connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something - your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life. “Its easy to be thankful for the good things , while a life of rich fulfillment comes to those who are also thankful for the setbacks. As he said , he never graduated from any college , he quit his college life but not his study . Things seem not romantic as we think , Jobs slept on the floor in friends rooms for not having his own dorn room , and his food depended on collecting bottles for 5 cents . and “much of what he stumbled into by following his curiosity and intuition turned out to be priceless later on” , he said .Because he dropped out ,he attended a calligraphy class . Here , not only he learned how to do it , but also studied serif and san serif typefaces. None of this had even a hope of any practical application but years later,when they were designing the first Macintosh computer ,it all helped a lot . As he said , “If I had never dropped out, I would have never dropped in on this calligraphy class, and personal computers might not have the wonderful typography that they do. Of course it was impossible to connect the dots looking forward when I was in college. But it was very, very clear looking backwards ten years later. ”Sow nothing , reap nothing .You have to trust something -your gut , destiny , life and so on . This approach will never let you down , and it will make all the difference in your life . Be true to who you are , stop trying to please other people or be someone else .Its better to be an original version of yourself than an exact duplicate of someone else. Its very sorry to see that Jobs were fired by his own company . In his nearly thirties , for the version of the future he and his cooperator had a falling out , the Board of Directors didnt side with him . He said “what had been the focus of my entire adult life was gone , and it was devastating .” Later on , something began to dawn him -he still love what he did .Thats enough . Therefore he decided to start over .Dont cry because it is over , smile because it happened .And Jobs even thinks that it was the best thing that could have ever happened to him , what an amazing thought!He just said， “The heaviness of being successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again, less sure about everything. It freed me to enter one of the most creative periods of my life. ”He set NEXT and another company Pixar , the technology they developed at NeXT is at the heart of Apples current renaissance. Pretty surely , none of this would have happened if he hadnt been fired from Apple. It was awful tasting medicine, but I guess the patient needed it.Here comes the third story - Death .Have you ever spent your every day as your last day ? Have you ever asked yourself in front of a mirror ,“if today were the last day of my life , would I want to do what I am about to do today ?” And , have you ever thought that life may need some change after your answering “No .”?Remembering that we will be dead soon so all things like pride , fear of embarrassment or failure , all of them will fall away , leaving only what is truly important .Facing death , Jobs realizes that the death is very likely the single best invention of life . For what ？It cleans out the old to make way for the new . So dont waste it living someone elses life .Above all , have the courage to follow your heart and intuition , they somehow already know what you truly want to become . Forrest Gump once told us “life is like the chocolate ,youll never know what youll get next .”Well , an Aspirin or candy , its up to you .