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IntroductionBody languages 1 can be defined as silent (non-verbal) messages communicated through the senders body movements, facial expressions, voice tone and loudness, etc. In social psychology, all behavior in presence of another person is considered communication.Body languages, the physical movements and gestures that convey our emotions, are more powerful than spoken languages. It is often said that in face-to-face and even body-to-body communications, the words we speak actually account for less than 10% of the messages that we convey, while body language accounts for more than half of our messages (our tone of voice supposedly communicates the rest). So if your words say one thing but your body says another, the person you are speaking to is more likely to believe the message your body is communicating. And the body languages of flirting are a important part of them.In this article, in order to give you a clear knowledge of the meaning of body languages in use in our daily life and try to make it in a fun and interesting way, i will introduce the body languages of flirting for you which are mainly under the Chinese and English context. Body languages of flirtingHelen Rowland10 once said that Flirting is the gentle art of making a man feel pleased with himself , and vice versa i think. The flirting body languages 2 are the gestures, postures, and facial expressions by which a person manifests various physical, mental, or emotional states and communicates nonverbally with others. What does his/her small and tiny postures supposed to mean when you on a date? Why should he put his hands in his pockets when you passing by? Why she is being silent when you are endless talking? Loves,interested or disgusts? Let us explore them together. He likes you Although people living in different countries have different ways to express love, interested- in, dislike, hate.they share a lot in common. There are 9 tips that shows a guy likes you:1.His eyebrows lift: When a guy first sees a girl hes attracted to, his eyebrows will rise and fall quickly. On the contrary, if the guy who looks at you with a smooth, relaxed brow and eyes, that will means that he thinks youre boring.2.Gaining your attention: Exaggerated movements or gestures usually mean that hes trying to stand out from the crowd.3.Slight parting of the lips: His lips may automatically part for a second when your eyes first meet if he interested in you.4.Nostrils open slightly and face widens: As his eyebrows raise and nostrils flare slightly so with the parted lips, he has an open, friendly expression on his face.5.Shifts to the classic male courship stance: The macho stance (cowboy style) - hell probably lock his thumbs in his belt or belt loops, point his fingers downwards, spread his legs about shoulder distance apart and tilt his head to one side.6. Touches his own face: He may unconsciously rub his chin, brush his cheek with the back of his fingers or touch his ears.7. Strokes his shirt front, smoothes his jeans: More unconscious preening - smoothing a shirt sleeve, tie, shirt pocket and so on.8. Fiddles with his hair: He may smooth or tussle his hair involuntarily and more often than you might realize.9. Sock Adjustment: If a guy pulls up or adjusts his socks in your presence, its an almost 100 percent sign hes interested and trying to look his best.She likes you If you are a boy, both from China and English-speaking countries, there are 9 tips for you to show that the girl likes you:1. Pushes her fingers through her hair: The way she touches her hair is also very important. If she does it slowly, you have encountered a cunning expert of the art of love and she is looking to get your attention. If quick, nervy movements, they disclose impatience or embarrassment.2. Touches the edge of the glass with her fingers: Freudian psychologists11 often interpret it as a sexual sign that they deliberately call the chosen mans attention upon themselves. (However, if she is beating a rhythm on the glass with her nails is a sign of impatience or a broad hint of SOS, which shes sending to her boyfriend.)3. Physical contact: If she touches you in any slightly manner, bump into you, or grab you, these are almost always good signs, with the exception of the event in which she is striking you and telling you to get out. 4.Check out her hands and arms: If she stares at them for a very long time, it may imply that likes you but she is nervous. If she is very shy, she will not be able to look at you.5.Look at the lips: If a woman wets her lips quite frequently, its either out of habit or desire to get you to pay attention to her lips, that means that she wants you to kiss her.6.Be silent and ponder: If she leans on her hand with her chin and her eyes seem to be thinking, generally, the woman tries to answer her own question Does this guy deserve me? So if you want to help her make the only right decision, be politely determinate an
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