Comparisons Of Chinese And Western Views On Love,Attitudes toward pursuing loveManners of expressing loveAttitudes toward sexReasons for different views,Attitudes toward pursuing love,Chinese:they always give up true love or struggle for thierlove negatively.Because they often consider something like family and job. Westerners: they pursue true love boldly and love indepence and freedom.They would give up everything to keep the relationship.,Chinese: pay more attention to the inner beauty.Like, Liang Shanbo and Zhu Yingtai. They have been together for three years and in the dailiy contact.,Zhu Yingtai was attracted by his talent and connotation and fell in love with him Westerners: pay more attention to the external beauty. Just as Romeo and Juliet ,they fell in love with each other just at the first sight.,Manners of expressing love,CHINESE:They express their love implicitly and cautiously.WESTERNERS:frankly、open、romantic.,Attitudes toward sex,Chinese: they consider it immoral to have sex with someone before getting married . Westerners: they think it is commom for lovers to have sexual relations and sex is just a physiological needs.,Reasons for different views,China:it has been formed at the old society. women have a low social status and they must obey the three obediences and the four virtues and have little freedom in choosing thier husbands. Western countries: women play leading roles in families and enjoy a wide range of freedom,China based on self-sufficient agriculture 以自给自足的农业为基础 harmony between the heaven and human 天人合一 Western countries based on acient Greek business culture 以古希腊商业文化为基础 expanding outward 向外扩张,