Module 3 Body Language and Non-verbal Communication Listening & Speaking & Writing,1.To enable students to know some skills of listening. 2. Write a short reply to one of the invitations. 3.To enable students to learn to give advice.,Learning aims,Body language,posture,gesture,eye contact,Leading-in,facial expression,What is body language?,Body language is one form of non-verbal communication without using words. Eye contact, facial expression, gesture, and posture are different kinds of body language.,Eye contact,I love you !,Facial Expressions,Oh, I give up,Posture,I am the best!,Good! Well done!,gesture,Victory!,Keep silent!,Stop!,zero,rude,money,OK,most countries,Japan,France,Germany,Brazil,I.A gesture may have different meanings in different countries.,Pre-listening,II. Look at the list of verbs. Complete the sentences. 1)You use your lips to _ someone. 2)If you _ at someone you look at them for a long time. 3)If you _ your hand you lift it up. 4)You _ by moving your head up and down.,bend bow clap hug kiss nod raise stare wipe,kiss,stare,raise,nod,5)When you bend your upper body forwards you _. 6)You have to _ your knees to sit down. 7)If youre hot you can _ the sweat from your forehead. 8)At the end of a concert or a play it is usual to _.,bow,bend,wipe,clap,What to talk about When to arrive for dinner How to meet new people When to leave the table Gifts What to call people What to say to the host when you leave,6,5,4,1,3,2,7,I. Listen and number them in the order they are mentioned(P25 activity 3).,Listening,II. Match the following pieces of advice with the topics in activity 3. a.You should shake hands when you meet new people. _ b. You should bring some flowers or a bottle of wine. _ c. You should open gifts immediately. _ d. You shouldnt use family names. _ e. You shouldnt arrive too late. _ _,How to meet new people,Gifts,Gifts,What to call people,When to arrive for,dinner,f. You shouldnt talk about politics or religion. _ g. You mustnt leave as soon as you finish the meal._ h. You must thank your host for a wonderful evening._ i. You mustnt arrive early. _,What to talk about,When to leave the table,What to say to the host when you leave,When to arrive for dinner,What should Li Hong do when she is invited to dinner?,What can Li Hong talk about?,When can Li Hong leave the table?,What should Li Hong do when she leaves?,She should bring a gift for host, for example, some flowers or a bottle of wine.,She shouldnt talk about politics or religion, and she can talk about weather.,She mustnt leave the table as soon as she finishes the meal.,She must thank the host for a wonderful evening.,III .Listen again and answer!,Work in pairs. Do this role-play.,Speaking,Student A: An American visitor to China. Ask B for advice on Chinese customs. Student B: A Chinese student. Student As friend. Give A advice using should or must or sentences beginning with if.,Situations: be introduced to others; be invited; meet someone familiar; talk to people; say goodbye,Pre-writing,1.Read and answer: 1)Who is the first invitation from? 2)Who is the second invitation from? 3)Which is formal or informal? How do you know?,Mr. and Mrs. Harry Blunkett.,Sylvia.,The first invitation is formal. We know because of the language used.,2.Look at these expressions. Which are formal, and which are informal?,pleased to accept /unable to accept/ Thanks a lot / Im very sorry,The key:,“Thanks a lot” is informal; the other three are formal.,3.Conclusion: 邀请函包括宴会、舞会、晚餐、聚会、婚礼等各种邀请信件，形式上大体分为两种:一种为正规的格式 (formal correspondence);一种是非正式格式(informal correspondence)。 邀请信一定要将邀请的时间(年、月、日、钟点)、地点、场合写清楚，不能使接信人存在任何疑虑。,邀请信的回复 邀请信的复信要求简明扼要，在书写时应注意以下几点: 1) 接受邀请的复信中应重复写上邀请信中的某些内容，如邀请年、月、日，星期几、几点钟等，如 “Ill be delighted to attend your luncheon next Friday, May the fifth, at twelve oclock”.。,Writing,2) 邀请信的复信中应明确表明接受邀请还是不接受邀请，不能含糊其辞，如不能写 “Ill come if Im in town.” 这类的话，以致对方无法做出安排。在接受邀请的复信中，应对受到邀请表示高兴。谢绝的复信中应阐明不能应邀的缘由。,Write a short reply to one of the invitations. Use one of the expressions from activity 2.(P28),Dear Mr and Mrs Blunkett, I was delighted to receive the invitation to your daughters wedding on March 5th.I am very pleased to accept, and look forward to meeting you there. Yours sincerely, Peter J. Smith,1.stare v .凝视，盯着看 He sat there, staring into the space. 他坐在那儿，凝视着太空。 【知识拓展】 stare at 目不转睛地看， 凝视， 盯着 Dont stare at me like that. 不要那样盯着我看。,Language points,【易混辨析】stare atglare atglance at stare at “盯着看，凝视”；眼神很集中 glare at “怒视”，相当于 stare angrily glance at “瞥一眼，匆匆看一眼”,他肯定已经感觉到我正在看他。他突然扫视了我一眼然后平静地说:“你为什么一直那样看着我?”,【即学即练】 选用stare atglare atglance at的适当形式填空。,(2015湖南高考）He must have sensed that I was looking at him. He suddenly _me and said quietly, “Why are you _me like that?”,glanced at,staring at,2. request vt. /n. 请求；