Getting along with others,Reading,Lead-in,Do you keep in touch with your friends? Have you ever argued with a very good friend? How would you mend broken friendship?,What may lead to a broken friendship? -having little in common -lacking trust -there being conflict of interest -being jealous of each other -being indifferent to each other -being hostile to each other ,Go through the two letters quickly and answer questions in Part A.,Fast reading,1. Are the writers of the two letters feeling happy or sad?,They are feeling sad.,2. What grade did Sarah get on the math quiz? She got a D. 3. In Andrews opinion, why did his team lose the match? Because his friend Matthew was playing badly in the match.,Careful reading 1,Read the first letter carefully and answer the following questions. Why other children say we are no fun?,Secrets and lies,Because we are both very academic and like to study.,2. What did Sarah think about the math quiz?,She thought it was a piece of cake.,3. What did Sarah tell Hannah in the girls washroom?,She told Hannah how badly she had done in the math quiz.,4. Why did Sarah tell Hannah that they werent going to be friends any more?,Because she thought that Hannah had told her classmates about her grade after promising not to do so.,She felt ,Feelings understanding,The reasons,She thought her best friend Hannah didnt keep her secret.,She scored the lowest grade in her class.,ashamed,betrayed,She felt ,The reasons,She found a piece of paper on her desk that said stupid Sarah got a D.,She thought her best friend Hannah didnt keep her secret.,angry,upset,1. Why did Mathew get annoyed at Andrew after the match?,A friendship in trouble,Careful reading 2,Because Andrew was very angry with him and said he was not trying hard enough.,2. What did Matthew think about losing the match?,He thought it wasnt his fault.,Football is very important to him.,3. How did Andrew think of football?,4. What kind of boy is Matthew?,He is usually cheerful and outgoing.,He has been really quiet and looks sad.,5. How is Matthew recently?,He had a problem.,Reading strategy,He felt really guilty.,He got angry,Consolidation,Annie wrote back to the two students. Complete her replies with the words from the box below.,pretended apologize awkward betrayed horrible forgive guilty swear admit cruel,Dear Sarah, You have every right to feel _ by,betrayed,your friend if she did tell your secret to others and then _ that she was innocent, but perhaps she didnt do it. Would a best friend really act this way? If you still have doubts, think about why you dont believe her. Was it because you were ashamed of your _ grade, or because you envied her?,pretended,horrible,If so, the problem lies with you, not her. While it may feel _, if she really is your best friend you should _ for blaming her. However, if you really sense that she wanted to embarrass you in public, you had better find a new friend. Yours truly Annie,awkward,apologize,Dear Andrew, It seems you need to apologize quickly to avoid losing a good friend! Matthew probably felt _ about losing the match, and bad about not being as gifted at football as you are. Shouting at him just made him feel worse.,guilty,Although you both said _ things to each other, one of you has to be the first to _ that it was a mistake. You are simply going to have to _ him. You _ that your friendship is as important as football, so dont let a small disagreement destroy your friendship.,cruel,admit,forgive,swear,Talk to your friend and Im sure that, before long, youll be back playing football together. Sincerely Annie,If you were Sarah or Andrew, would you try to fix the broken friendship with your friend? What would you do to fix it?,Post-reading,If you had a problem with your friend, would you write to Annie? If not, who would you talk to? If you were the Annie from the magazine, what advice would you give to Sarah?,Student A: Annie Student B: Sarah Student C: Hannah,Student A: Annie Student B: Andrew Student C: Matthew,or,Role-play,Form a group of three,Presentation,TALK SHOW,When you say something wrong .,Lily: You know, I think you hurt Kates feeling when you told her she is a little overweight. John: Hmm, I didnt realize that. Do you think she is angry with me?,Lily: I dont know if “angry” is the right word, but it seems to me shes a little upset. John: Oh, I feel terrible. Lily: Maybe you ought to apologize to her. That might help patch things up between the two of you. John: Good idea! I will do that.,HELP: patch . up 调停，解决（纷争、争执等）,What is a friendship?,Discussion,A Friend. Accepts you as you are Believes in you Calls you just to say Hi,接受原本的你 相信你这個人 打电话给你就是想说声Hi,Doesnt give up on you Envisions the whole of you (even the unfinished parts) Forgives your mistakes,从不放弃对你的信心 对你知根知底（即使是没有完成的部分） 原谅你的过错,Gives unconditionally Helps you Invites you over Just be with you,无条件的付出 帮助你 邀请你 和你在一起,Keep