Topic 1Everyone will experience the different stages of life, and as we grow older, our purpose of choosing a friend changes. This is what today my topic is mainly focus on.When we are still a child, we are all innocent and worry about nothing. In this stage, we dont care about our friends social background, their religions, values or whether they are poor or wealthy. We are still too young to realize those complicated questions. We just want to find someone to play with, to accompany us venturing in the colorful world with our pure eyes. The interesting thing may be, a childs friend is not just considered human beings. It can also be a cat, a dog, or even a flower growing in the yard.But when we growing up, things changes. Aspects like personalities, social back ground, values, religions, and which political camps you belong to all begin to influences the choice we make in choosing a friend now. The reason why people begin to aware these in choosing a friend I think is caused by mainly two reasons. First, the knowledge we learn changed our mind. What we learn plays an important role in building our personalities and values, and if two people are extremely different in personalities and values, they may find they are always arguing on variety of things. In this way, they may not become friends at all. Second, as an adult, he will always have ambitions to succeed. To meet some people with good knowledge and superior social background can help you much easily to get what you want. It may be more obviously in politics. Since we are now considered much more on a series of aspects in choosing a friend, we find our real friends are less. Thats because our aim is so clear. We havent treated our friend with our true heart. A real friend is whom you can always turn to, and he never dislikes and avoids you. No matter which stage we are in, we need true friends.(O)Every one of us is different from others, even friends are different in some ways, but the difference may lie in different aspects at different stages of life.In childhood, The friendship between children is very pure and easy ,so they often differ in the way that related to family ,achievement in school ,interests , personalities and something like that ,These differences cant impair their relationship. For example, a child who gets high grades in school can make friends with another child who may not be able to earn a high score, and a boy who loves playing computer games can be the good friend of another boy who prefers playing basketball. and two children coming from respectively a rich family and a relatively poor family can still get on well with each other.However, when people grow older, the difference is changing. People may tend to find friends who have a similar social and educational background with them, the same interests and values are also important factors. But the difference of age may occur, the age gap may not play a main role in finding friends .Besides, personalities are probably also different. We can see that an organized person and an impulsive one can be very good friends.Seeing from the above, we know that in different ages people seek friends in different trend.So friends common aspects are changing thus the differences points are changing as well. But we all know they do no great harm to the friendship.Topic 2To discuss this topic, I want to explain what the meaning of friend is first. In my point of view, I consider friend someone you have the same interests and hobbies, and can shares your happiness and sorrows with. But the relationship of “more than a friend” is even beyond that. It may reach the relation like family members, or your future partner, whom we called him/her your” boy/girl friend”. Why do people want this kind of relationship? I think there are three main points:First, for love is peoples real emotion, everyone wants to love someone and be loved. Second, people are social animals, they are always afraid of being alone. A friend can surely help you get rid of it, but they cant always accompany you. What I want to say is, despite your family member, it is “more than a friend” who can accompany you and care about you more than others. So a reason for peoples willing of having a “more than a friend” relation is to forget the feeling of loneliness. I might just mention about the word care. So my third point is people usually want more care from others. This can make them feel that they are useful, and really important to someone. In this way, they find their meaning of living. A friend and a “more than a friend” are different here. Friend is of course an important role in your life. But someone who consider you “more than a friend”, are indicating that he thinks you are different from others for him. Nobody else can replace you. This also means he cares you more than others, including his friends.However, although people are willing to have a relati