有一个美丽的小女孩 Go to the point “B”“In fact, let everything burn and imagine waking up tomorrow with nothing, its kind of exhilarating, isnt it?” It is the renowned theory of “package” of Ryan Bingham.In the movie up in the air, Ryan Bingham played the role of a “redundancy expert”. He traveled all over the country almost throughout the year for business with a rare record made by himtotally 10,000,000 miles in the air which was ceremoniously honored by the airplane company. There was no permanent and steady house for him. He lived “up in the air ”both in reality and in his soul. The character of his job determined his personalitycallousness, cruelty and ruthlessness. In front of the staff, he didnt show any emotional swift after seeing the tears, anger, sadness, and anxiety of them. As a “top” distinguished guest of several departments, Ryan Bingham enjoyed the priority, a kind of superb life with high social status, focused sight of admiration and great reputation. We can recognize the shinning charisma through his wonderful speech in many places with powerful evidence, persuasive words and determined tone and attitude “You dont need to carry all that weight. Why dont u set that bag down? Some animals were meant to carry each other to live symbiotically for a lifetime. Star-crossed lovers, monogamous swans. We are not those animals. The slower we move, the faster we die. We are not swans, were sharks.”. Ryan Bingham who was a typical representative of the upper class among Americans was really a big success in career, which is one symbol of the name “up in the air”.If life is like a coordinate, Ryan Bingham was in the point of “A1”. Three things happened which made a big transformation to the point “B2”. First, the criticism from Natalie is the starting point. Ryan began to rethink the relationship with Alex, who was also a lonely traveler in the air. “You have set up a way of life that basically makes it impossible for you to have any kind of human A1BA2connection. And now, this woman comes along and somehow runs the gauntlet of your ridiculous life choice, and comes out on the other end smiling just u can call her casual?”. Casual was used to reflect both the impression made by Ryan on Alex and the understanding of Ryans relationship with Alex at the very beginning. Second, the wedding of Ryans sister ,especially his persuasion to his brother-in-low to change his mind“life is better with company and everyone needs a co-pilot”functioned as a breeze which made Ryan feel the warm of family and a company. Third ,he gradually fell in love with Alex who he regarded as a “red face know to me ” . This intimate female gave Ryan a sense of love and Ryan began to have the strong desire of loving others and being loved. He went down to the earththe point“B”. He became a man ready to make a psychological connection with “love ” of human. While, I feel so sorry and painful to see the ending which made him back to the point “A2” . “I thought I was a part of your real life. Try and help me understand exactly what it is that you signed up for.” said Ryan. “I thought our relationship was perfectly clear. I mean you are an escape, you are a break from our normal lives, youre a parenthesis”. Just using “A parenthesis” to conclude one process of emotional travel of life, Ryan fell into deeper loneliness again and got hurt seriously, and he said at the last of the movie“ Tonight most people will be welcomed home by jumping dogs and squealing kids. Their spouses will ask about their day and tonight theyll sleep. The stars will wheel forth from their daytime hiding places. The stars will wheel forth from their daytime hiding places. And one of those lights, slightly brighter than the rest, will be my wing tip passing over.” There is no dogs ,no kids, just himself left in the world , just a lonely shadow and profound thoughts for the meaning of life and happiness. After seeing this movie, several thoughts came into my mind. This movie firstly is a vivid representative of the social issue unemployment under the terrible financial crisis in America. The companies reduce the scale with the result that everyone should face the cruelty of social reality. Second, for my part, Ryans sincerity and rationality is the reason why he is so successful and meanwhile he is so lonely at the bottom of his heart. Everyone cannot live up in the air forever. The humanity is loneliness by its nature. We need the normal lives and emotional connection with others in realistic world. Love is the theme of life. There is no suspicion of the value of love, sincerity and family even in the capitalistic societyAmerica, a world which seemingly focuses more on the prosperity of economy and modern development, which is consistent with the traditional concept of Chinese. We can find evidence from the new life of the staff who are fired. The coordinate of life is not just