Unit 1Getting along with others教材背景链接教材背景链接生活中，尊重他人是必需的。但是，我们也不能成为唯唯诺生活中，尊重他人是必需的。但是，我们也不能成为唯唯诺诺之人。坦诚面对世间人与事，莫惧他人是与非。勇于表达诺之人。坦诚面对世间人与事，莫惧他人是与非。勇于表达自我，才是真正的自重自我，才是真正的自重Unit 1Getting along with othersStop being a people pleaserDo you habitually give in to other people because you just cant stand the thought of upsetting them？If so，you are a classic “people pleaser”Theres trouble ahead when you live only for the approval of others.Look at your fears.Are they realistic？You might be afraid that no one will like you，that someone will leave you，or that you will be left all alone if you dont say the right thing.That is a prison you have trapped yourself in，and its time to unlock the doors and walk out! Unit 1Getting along with othersConsider the source.Many people pleasers are raised in environments where their needs and feelings are left out of consideration.By focusing on pleasing others，you will never reach your potential as an individual if you constantly hide behind othersexpections.Learn how to say “no”Dont make up excusesgive your reasons for not wanting something.Start smallfind something small to say “no” to，but say it firmly.Say it politely，but mean it！People rarely get angry，and those that do arent worth pleasing.Unit 1Getting along with othersAsk for what you want.Theres nothing wrong with voicing your opinion，and it doesnt have to mean youre making a demand.Simply reminding people that youre an individual with your own preferences is a big step forward.In a word，you must remember that no one can read your mind.If you feel that you do so much for others，but they dont do anything for you，maybe its because you dont express your needs or desires.Unit 1Getting along with others品品读小思小思Answer the following questions.1What are the reasons for being a people pleaser?_2How can we stop being a people pleaser?_Feel bad to upset them；Want to get others approval.Dont expect others to read your mind；Express your needs and desires.Unit 1Getting along with othersSection Welcome to the unit & ReadingWarming UpUnit 1Getting along with others栏目栏目导引导引自学导引自学导引语篇理解语篇理解Unit 1Getting along with others.重点重点单词1_vt. 出出卖，背叛，背叛2_vt.& vi. 假装，装扮，扮作假装，装扮，扮作3_vt. & vi. 承承认；允；允许进入，接入，接纳4_vt. & vi. 请求，求，恳求；乞求；乞讨5_vt. & vi. 发誓，誓，郑重承重承诺；咒；咒骂，说脏话6_vt. 原原谅，宽恕恕7sincerely adv._betraypretendadmitbeg swearforgive真真诚地地栏目栏目导引导引自学导引自学导引语篇理解语篇理解Unit 1Getting along with others8superb adj. _9_ n焦点；重点焦点；重点 vt.& vi. . 集中注意力于集中注意力于,使使(聚焦聚焦)10_ n. 方式；方式；态度，度，举止止11_ adj. 内疚的；有罪的内疚的；有罪的12_ vi.& n. 评论，谈论13_ adj. 令人令人尴尬的，尬的，别扭的；笨拙的扭的；笨拙的14_ vi. 争吵，争吵， 争争论15_vi. 道歉道歉极好的，极佳的，卓越的极好的，极佳的，卓越的focusmannerguiltyremarkawkwardargueapologize栏目栏目导引导引自学导引自学导引语篇理解语篇理解Unit 1Getting along with others16_adj. 敏感的；易生气的；体敏感的；易生气的；体贴的的 17_ adj. 擅擅长运运动的；健壮的的；健壮的18_ n& vt. 羡慕，忌妒羡慕，忌妒19_ n& vt. 责备，指，指责20_ n& vi. 争吵，争争吵，争执sensitiveathleticenvyblamequarrel栏目栏目导引导引自学导引自学导引语篇理解语篇理解Unit 1Getting along with others.重点短重点短语1get_with与与友好相友好相处2_ones word 信守信守诺言言3belong_ 属于属于4spy_ 窥探，探， 暗中暗中监视5_trouble 在麻在麻烦中中6keep pace_ 与与步步调一致一致7as a result_ 由于，因由于，因为8accuse sb._sth. 因因控告某人控告某人9cant help_ 禁不住做某事禁不住做某事10_ long 不久，很快不久，很快on/along keepto onin withof of doingbefore 栏目栏目导引导引自学导引自学导引语篇理解语篇理解Unit 1Getting along with others.重点句型重点句型1考考试之后之后,我的口气听上去想必是很自我的口气听上去想必是很自鸣得意得意,因因为我嚷嚷我嚷嚷着着说那次考那次考试有多么容易有多么容易,还说我肯定能我肯定能够取得很好的成取得很好的成绩。I _ very proud of myself after the quiz，saying_andhow I _ get a good grade.2我我怒怒不不可可遏遏，径径直直找找到到了了汉娜娜，对她她宣宣布布我我们俩以以后后再再也也不是朋友了，因不是朋友了，因为她不能信守承她不能信守承诺。I was _ angry _ I went straight to Hannah and told her we _ going to be friends _ because she couldnt _.must have soundedhow easy it waswas sure tosothatwerentany morekeep her word栏目栏目导引导引自学导引自学导引语篇理解语篇理解Unit 1Getting along with others3昨天，我看到他和另外一个叫彼得的男生昨天，我看到他和另外一个叫彼得的男生说话，我禁不住，我禁不住在想，他是不是希望彼得取代我，成在想，他是不是希望彼得取代我，成为他最要好的朋友呢？他最要好的朋友呢？Yesterday，I saw him talking to another boy，Peter，and I _ if he wants Peter to be his best friend _ me.cannot help wonderinginstead of栏目栏目导引导引自学导引自学导引语篇理解语篇理解Unit 1Getting along with othersStep One: Leadingin1 Think of the most recent fight with your friend. What caused it?_2What are the reasons leading to a broken friendship?_Students own answers.Not trusting each other；Misunderstanding；Lacking communication；There being conflicts in interest；Not caring each other enough.栏目栏目导引导引自学导引自学导引语篇理解语篇理解Unit 1Getting along with others3What puzzle do you have in getting along with you friends?_4Who can we turn to for help when we have problems with our friends?_Students own answers.Students own answers.栏目栏目导引导引自学导引自学导引语篇理解语篇理解Unit 1Getting along with othersStep Two: Fast Reading.Tell true or false according to the text.1Sarah felt good after the math quiz because she really got a good grade.()2Both Sarah and Hannah are hardworking.()3Hannah didnt sense something was wrong before she was told the fact.()4Sarah thought Hannah must have told their classmates about her bad grade.()5The only people who see the grades are the teacher and the students that the grades belong to.()FT FT T 栏目栏目导引导引自学导引自学导引语篇理解语篇理解Unit 1Getting along with others.Scan the text and choose the best answer. ()1What did Sarah think about the surprise math quiz?A. She thought it was difficult. BShe thought the teacher would praise her for her good grade.CShe thought her friend Hannah would be proud of her.DShe thought she would get a good grade.D栏目栏目导引导引自学导引自学导引语篇理解语篇理解Unit 1Getting along with others2What did Sarah feel when she was told that she had lowest grade in the class? ()AShe felt worried.BShe felt proud.CShe felt she was at a loss.DShe felt stupid.C栏目栏目导引导引自学导引自学导引语篇理解语篇理解Unit 1Getting along with others3Why did Sarah tell Hannah they werent going to be friends any more? ()ABecause she was laughed at by all her classmates.BBecause she got a piece of paper on her desk saying“Stupid Sarah got a D”CBecause she thought Hannah didnt keep her secret.DBecause Hannah told her a lie.C栏目栏目导引导引自学导引自学导引语篇理解语篇理解Unit 1Getting along with others4According to the text we know that _.Aboth Sarah and Hannah are good at EnglishBboth Sarah and Hannah are hardworkingCboth Sarah and Hannah got good grades in the surprise math quizDboth Sarah and Hannah spend almost every day with each other except SundayB栏目栏目导引导引自学导引自学导引语篇理解语篇理解Unit 1Getting along with others5From the passage we can infer that _.AHannah didnt keep Sarahs secretBthe piece of paper on Sarahs desk was written by HannahCsomeone must have been spying on them in the washroomDmost of the classmates knew that Sarah didnt do well in the surprise math quizD栏目栏目导引导引自学导引自学导引语篇理解语篇理解Unit 1Getting along with othersStep Three: Careful ReadingFill in the blanks according to the text.Two letters to AnnieWritersFeelingsCauses1._SarahFeeling2_.Scoring the lowest 3._in class.Getting teased by everyone.Not able to 6._Hannah.Losing her best friend.Finding the paper saying“4._Sarah got a D”Being so5_as to feel like crying.Feeling betrayed.Thinking her best friend failed to keep her 7._.Resultsashamed markStupidupset forgivesecret栏目栏目导引导引自学导引自学导引语篇理解语篇理解Unit 1Getting along with othersAndrewBeing 8._with Matthew.Thinking Matthew played football9._.He broke up with Matthew.Matthew became quiet and sadness.Feeling 10._.Making some cruel remarks.Feeling awkward.Matthews stopping talk to him.angry badly/ carelesslyguilty栏目栏目导引导引自学导引自学导引语篇理解语篇理解Unit 1Getting along with othersStep Four: SummaryA friendship in troubleAndrew had a best friend, Matthew.They had been best friends since1._.Last week, they had an important match against another school.The other team was2._ and they really had to3._.In the match, Matthew couldnt keep4._with the game so they lost the game. For this reason, Andrew got angry with Matthew and said that he was not trying hard enough. childhoodsuperbfocuspace栏目栏目导引导引自学导引自学导引语篇理解语篇理解Unit 1Getting along with othersMatthew got annoyed, saying it wasnt his fault and that Andrew shouldnt talk to him in that5._.They6._ and it turned into a 7._ argument at last. Because Andrew 8._ seeing his team lose, he made some cruel9._ during the argument. Since they argued, they had stopped talking to each other. Andrew felt 10._.mannerquarrelledhorribledislikedremarksawkward 栏目栏目导引导引自学导引自学导引语篇理解语篇理解Unit 1Getting along with others本部分内容讲解结束本部分内容讲解结束按按ESC键退出全屏播放退出全屏播放